Etiquette once dictated that women should only be "showered" for their first baby. Now, etiquette gurus say otherwise - and I am in complete agreement with the new outlook. It's silly to think that moms only need items for the first baby. On the contrary, things can only get more expensive with the second, third, and beyond. So, subscribe to the new way of doing things. Go ahead - host a baby shower for a mom you know.